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Lesson 4: Integration — The Unification of Self

Becoming Whole: The Power of Integration in Personal Growth

Vazken Kalayjian
2 min readNov 5, 2024

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In the fourth post of our six-part series inspired by Dr. David Dressler’s life-changing wisdom, we’ll discuss the process of integration — uniting the conscious and unconscious parts of yourself to live as a whole, balanced person. Integration is key to living with integrity and authenticity. By the end of this post, you’ll gain insight into how Dr. Dressler’s teachings can help you harmonize your inner world and achieve personal peace.

You have to experience your emotional wounds to, heal them.

Integration is the process of bringing together all aspects of ourselves into a unified whole. It’s the next step after personal growth and is necessary for living a balanced, fulfilling life.

To become integrated, we must learn to care for our inner child and take responsibility for our emotional well-being. As Dressler explains, consciousness begets conscience, meaning that as we become aware of our truths, we can no longer deny them. Integrity and authenticity grow from this awareness.

However, insight alone is not enough to bring about change. We must act on what we’ve learned. This means addressing emotional wounds, recognizing our strengths and limitations, and creating the reality we wish to live. In doing so, we find the balance to face life’s challenges with patience and perseverance.

Conclusion:

Integration is about bringing together your conscious and unconscious aspects of yourself to live as a whole person. This holistic approach leads to inner peace and balance in the face of life’s demands.

Exercise:

Inner Child Dialogue

Find a quiet place where you can reflect undisturbed. Close your eyes and imagine yourself as a child. Ask your “inner child”:

  • What do you need from me right now?
  • How can I support you in feeling safe, loved, and acknowledged?

Write down any insights or emotions that arise, then brainstorm ways to parent your inner child in daily life. This exercise promotes emotional healing and integration.

6 Life Lessons from Dr. David Dressler.

1: Personal Growth: Taking Responsibility for Your Life
2: Stress Management: Maintaining Balance in an Unbalanced World
3: Reshaping Attitudes and Behaviors: Learning from Life’s Lessons
4: Integration: The Unification of Self
5: Self-Realization: Living with Purpose and Higher Consciousness
6: Cultivating Spiritual Wisdom for a Fulfilling Life

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Vazken Kalayjian
Vazken Kalayjian

Written by Vazken Kalayjian

Visionary entrepreneur, futurist, and meditation teacher exploring creativity, tech, & spirituality. Uncovering truths, driving innovation. To awaken humanity!

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